Instincts

     My advice to all of you on this subject is to ALWAYS follow your instincts.  I realize that some of us have better instincts than others.  I, for one, will say that when I follow my instincts they never lead me down the wrong road.  It is when I go against what I am feeling that disaster, or close it, typically happens.
   My goal here is to stress to all of you to follow what is in your gut or in your heart.  My experience has been that it NEVER leads you down the wrong road.  How many times do you do something that doesn't feel right and you do it anyway?  I have done that numerous times and in hindsight, I always wish I had followed my initial gut feeling.   Maybe it is the eternal optimist part of me that lends it's hand to me betraying my gut.  Don't get me wrong, I think it is great to see the best in people, however, don't ignore that nagging feeling that keeps telling you it is not right.
   I believe that when you do not follow your gut that there is a lesson for you to learn through your experience.  Do not get down on yourself for being "foolish", it is just part of your process.  I would not do anything over....the reason is that there is always something to learn from our experiences....good, bad, or ugly.   I am making an attempt to help save you from pain and heartache....listen to your instincts....typically, they never lead you down the wrong road.  One might say...LIVE AND LEARN.
    Have a great day and remember BE YOUR BEST SELF!!!!